Turn On Your Light || Jenessa Sheffield

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The other day I thought it would be so cute to take pictures with Olivia playing with some records. She loves music these days! She is so funny, every time I sing and dance for her she rocks back and forth, clasps her hands and just giggles. It is sooo sweet! I hope she always thinks I am a great singer and dancer haha I know that isn’t realistic because I am probably the most embarrassing performer haha I have zero talent when it comes to the music industry!

The other day I had a huge to do list but Liv was having one of those “needy” days where she just wanted my attention all day. She didn’t want to sit and entertain herself she wanted to see ME. Touch my face, feel my kisses and grab my hands. So I ripped up my to do list and did just that. I know that can’t always happen but what a blessing it is to be able to forget about the chores and just focus on my little girl. I LOVE that she wants to spend time with me so I want to take advantage of that. It is okay as mothers if we don’t get everything checked off our list everyday. It’s important for me to remember that success comes from making others feel noticed, loved & appreciated ESPECIALLY when it comes to our children and spouses. So don’t feel bad if your hair is a mess, the house isn’t picked up or if you had to pick up McDonald’s for dinner. Are your kids smiling? Does your husband feel loved and appreciated? If yes, than your day was a TOTAL success!

ONE OF MY FAVORITE QUOTES by Marjorie Pay Hinckley 

I don’t want to drive up to the pearly gates in a shiny sports car, wearing beautifully, tailored clothes, my hair expertly coiffed, and with long, perfectly manicured fingernails. I want to drive up in a station wagon that has mud on the wheels from taking kids to scout camp. I want to be there with a smudge of peanut butter on my shirt from making sandwiches for a sick neighbor’s children.¬† I want to be there with a little dirt under my fingernails from helping to weed someones garden. I want to be there with children’s sticky kisses on my cheeks and the tears of a friend on my shoulder. I want the Lord to know I was really here and that I really lived.”

While Liv and I eat breakfast I try and have something inspiring playing in the background. Yesterday we listened to a talk by Sharon Eubank titled TURN ON YOUR LIGHT (Click HERE to listen to it) I feel like this talk goes so well with who I am aspiring to become in 2018 and aligns perfectly with the goals I set (You can read my goals HERE) She basically mentions 5 things we can do as women to impact the world.

  • Be righteous: That doesn’t mean be perfect but do our part to develop a connection with God, take owner ship of our mistakes and try harder to not repeat them. The choices we make determine the path we go down. Whatever path we go down are children are most likely going to go down as well. The path we create paves the way for our children’s path and by choosing the right we can feel confident that are children are going down the correct path

 

  • Be articulate: Be able to express how you feel and why. By having a clear understanding of what we believe in and who we want to represent we can clearly explain why we do certain things. We can be an example to others and answer their questions when asked why we do or don’t do certain things.

 

  • Be different: I believe when we are trying our best to do what is right and be a light to others we will be blessed with an insight or an alternative solution on how to meet the needs of those around us. Stand out by being kind, loving, and outward looking.

 

  • Be distinct: Take the time to develop and recognize your skills. What do you have to offer? Use your hobbies and interests to serve and help those around you.

 

  • Be Happy: That doesn’t mean slap a fake plastic smile on your face. But it does mean living righteously and doing your part to help lift those around you. President Gordon B. Hinckley said it best, “You don’t build out of pessimism or cynicism. You look with optimism, work with faith, and things happen.” There is an energy that comes from happiness and optimism that doesn’t just bless us, it builds everyone around us. Anything you do to light real happiness in others shows that you are doing your part to make this world a brighter place.

What are some things you guys do to make the world a better place?

XOXO JNESS

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It’s Time to Trust Yourself Again.

So I had this ahah moment during my yoga practice the other morning and I wanted to share. I’m not one who likes to be negative so I hope this doesn’t come across as complaining. I just want to be authenticate. Due to the career I am in I think it is easy for my life to come across as “picture perfect” and I don’t like that. I am a regular woman with daily struggles and hardships. I have overcome a lot of really hard trials, during those times I was super angry and hateful. Since then, I have changed and decided I want to be happy and loving, I think that is a post all in it’s self. The point is I have been having a hard week and just wanted to share how I have been pushing through. It’s a simple thing but I think often times overlooked.

A lot of things I have been investing a ton of time into have not been manifesting into anything, not only that but like declining sooo fast. It seems that all my hard work is just not good enough and it is causing me to be filled with doubt. I think this is something a lot of people can relate to. Whether it’s work, relationships, being a mom, wife, friend whatever. I think we have all at one time felt this way. Like I said I was in the middle of my Yoga meditation and I just said out loud “Jenessa, I trust you.” It sounds so cheesy and weird but seriously when I said those words this huge burden just felt lifted. I was overcome with hope and confidence in myself. I continued to say, “I know you won’t let me fail, you are a hard worker, persistent and can endure through anything. I trust that you get me through this hardship, make the right decisions and find success. You have done it before and I know you will do it again.”

I don’t think we give ourselves the pep talks we need. I get it, it’s uncomfortable to talk to yourself but sometimes hearing from somebody else doesn’t work. We need to hear it from ourselves in order to believe it. So I challenge you to try it, look in the mirror and tell yourself what you need to hear.

My situation has not changed, I am still not getting the results I have hoped for but my attitude has changed. I am not feeling sorry for myself, I am not complaining to Jordan about it. I am making other plans to fix to it. The best part is, because I have more confidence in myself I am not so consumed with my problems and asking for advice from others. I can actually listen to the struggles other people are going through and try to help them. I felt like I was so distracted by my own struggle that I couldn’t connect with others, I was too self absorbed.

What are some things you do to get out of a funk?

XOXO JNESS

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